Sticks and Stones……but Social Suicide is worse
Written by chameleonfridays on November 14th, 2008
The adage ’sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me’ has been proven untrue by Australian and US researchers in the publication ‘Psychological Science‘
Words effect us much more than we realise and cause more pain than physical injuries, the scientisits have found.
Volunteers experienced less anguish, when recalling ‘physically traumatic experiences’ in comparison with the more upsetting ’socially painful situations’, during tests.
Defence against social suicide? Build your confidence but making the best of yourself, both physically and mentally. Take time for hobbies and activities you enjoy. You’ll soon realise most comments say more about the speakers insecurities than yours.
If that doesn’t help, take up self defence. At least you wont feel as physically threatened when bullies strike. For tips on building your self confidence click here.
